Monday, January 26, 2026

This week...

Holly took Wayne out for his birthday to Joy Luck.  She included me, Dale, and Wanee.  Holly loves ham fried rice and Orange Chicken, so she was in heaven.  Holly is fun to go out with because she is kind of silly and really positive about everything.  She enjoys the waiter, and the food, and ordering the food and getting a Sprite.  It's childlike joy and it's contagious.   


I had my Girlfriend bgroup Therapy for January.  We gathered at Kathleen's home for a pot luck Salad-- evryone brought the perfect ingredients-- it really was delicious-- and a book exchange.  The task was to bring one of the books you have read to tell about and give away.  We had many wonderful books shared and we all went away with a new book to read.  When I made this group I didn't want another book group-- but occasionally it would be about books.  
front row:  Diane Lake, Bonnie Benedict, Janet Webster, Lesley Leger.  back row: Jan Hedberg, Kathleen Blake, Erin Perkins, Jill Allsop, Myken Shingleton, Jana Uryan, and me.
We went with the Lakes to see Three Dog Night!  It was a riot!  The average age there was probably 65.  It started at 7 cuz we all want to be home in bed by 10.   We love their old tunes… so many familiar ones that have played in the soundtrack of our lives.  “One is the loneliest number, “  “Black and White,” “ Shambala”, “Just an Old fashioned Love song,” " Easy to be Hard, " and  “Jeremiah was a bullfrog.. Joy to the World.”    

I remember so clearly my family singing the “Jeremiah was a bullfrog” song at a Stake Talent show down at the Regional Center (the Valley Music Hall ) when I was about 10.  Mom got us girls all matching dresses and Dad and Adam had matching vests and we had tambourines.  Angela was 3, Liz 5, Adam 7 and Marcie 11…and we were AMAZING.   Mom changed some of the words to be more fitting..and I remember Dad and Adam singing the verse of “You know I love the Ladies…”  Good times.

Wednesday, January 21, 2026

Big Birthday party

We celebrated all of our December and January birthdays.  There are 8 of them from Dec. 2 to Jan 22.  This is the first time in two years we have had the entire family together!   We had roast beef and mashed potatoes for dinner - everyones favoirite -- then went around and said good things about each of our birthday people.  Elsi, Andrew, Monson, Wayne, Alfie, Lady, Tru and Laila.  It's good for the birthday person to hear and it's good for all of us to be reminded on how important it is to speak well of each other and notice each other's gifts and talents.

Addison made the cake...we blew out candles and played a fun music game called Hitster... you run a QR code and songs play, then if you know the artist and the title, that's bonus points, but the real goal is to figure out the time period when the song came out.  You build a timeline with the songs you use. 

Wayne broke out his soft ice cream machine...in the cold of winter.  Everyone loved it!  All the ice cream you can eat...but you have to eat it in the garage or in the kitchen, because I don't want a MESS.  



The grands all sang Wayne the Beatles song--" When I'm 64!" IT was really cute then a big group hug!



 

Friday, January 9, 2026

GKGN

Grandkid game night was great.  We had all 8 nuggets here.  I’ve started calling my grandkids nuggets since that’s all they want to eat when they come to my house.  So nuggets it is.

We kind of have a routine now that we are 2 years into this. We gather, color, and chat, have nuggets and fried or tator tots, do a “lesson”  this month we had all the kids write something they love, a wish or a goal on a paper to make a grand paper chain to decorate the sliding door and as a reminder for the next month. 




We head outside for running around, - red light green light– we even go outside if it’s really cold..and Wayne lights the fire pit and we have toasted marshmallows and s'mores.  Then back inside for charades. Our charade highlights were Lady being baby Jesus, and George being an eyeball– we didn’t guess either of these..... or some type of acting/ hiding game, then dessert– we had ice cream, then games.  We played trash and Sky jo then the parents come to get the nuggets.  It’s always a treat. 

Thursday, January 1, 2026

New Years Day 2026

 Wow, and we are at a New Year again.....


Many of us joined Addison and Bre's family for their annual seafood lunch on New Years day.  

I love a new year.  It feels like fresh starts or at least a time to contemplate what the coming year could bring.  
2026:New year, New me…

My word for the year is CREATIVITY


Dress more creatively— wear all my good clothes and jewelry.  Dopamine dressing. 


Only Thrift — DI, Savers, Good Will, TJ Maxx, Ross, NPS, other stores only clearance or sale


Don’t do two things at the same time —focus, be more present.


Silent morning walk— me and my thoughts, so I can have more inspiration and creativity. 


Listen to Book of Mormon and Old Testament Devotional each morning


Read 26+  books


Tell everyone about the Telepathy podcast


Dance every day!  30 seconds.


Tesla road trip to ….  Nashville, TN. - get Wayne to North Dakota-- the only state he hasn't been to.


Bear Lake June 22-29 with the Calls and the Coles


Disneyland with family the end of May


Continue Missionary ARP service in Water Tower Branch


Grandkid game night -- do mini coaching sessions with the grands.  Work on confidence and empathy.


Girlfriend group therapy once a month


Work with Friend 2 friend every Friday


Sidetracked band-- still enjoy it and see it continuing throughout this next year.



Monson's family also picked inspirational words for the coming year.
Monson's is Jesus-- he just turned 33 so it's his Jesus year to love more, be more compassionate and no harsh words.
Lexi: Simplify
Tayla: Resilliant
Lady: Calm
Elsie: Love

MY WISH:  Be too much.  Be extra.  Live Large.  Smile big.  Laugh hard.  Celebrate yourself.  Open your heart.  Express your emotions.  Use your words.  Giggle.  Dance.  Soak in the sun.  Splash in the waves.  Breathe deep, and love your life.  You only get one.

Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Last pic of the year

 This is a compilation of the last picture of me from the last twelve years.



Last week of 2025

 Wow and now we are at the end of 2025.  We made it.  

I read 42 books this year!  New record.  My favorites included the Correspondent, Broken Country, Frozen River, A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, Lonesome Dove and  Once there were Wolves.

My favorite podcast was hands down-- The Telepathy Tapes.  I want everyone to listen to it and then I want a discussion!!

I worked on relationships with taking my boys individually out to lunch once a month or so.   I also worked on friendships and getting out of my comfort zone with gathering new people.

Crocheting was still big for me… I finished many more projects and sweaters for myself.  My thumb and wrist aches— crochet thumb..so I had to take it easy toward the end of the year.  

Wayne and I watched "Stranger Things" a science fiction show on Netflix, and that was fun.  We enjoy spy type tv shows, and lawyer shows.  Fave movies of the year were "Mission Impossible the final reckoning," and "F1".  We also enjoyed the second half of  the Wicked movie. 

Started ARP missionary work.  We didn’t see this one coming, but feel so blessed to be serving in the Water Tower Branch.  This calling has already changed us so much.  It’s opened my eyes around the judicial and penal system.  It feels unfair to me that after these men have served their time, taken their punishment from society that when they are released they continue to be “punished” the rest of their lives..as felons getting a job is almost impossible.  So they continue to live in desperate situations…and really it’s easier for them to stay in the penal system and jail than be on the outside.   

I’m in awe at the spirit of this branch…truly it feels like everyone has hit rock bottom so the only thing left in Hope in Christ and the spirit here is so strong.  I’m also amazed at the volunteers who are so willing to cook, serve, clean up and pick up people from the halfway house.  So much good is happening here.

Trump’s Tariffs…. It has been the worst thing for Wayne’s importing company.  It’s been a bleak year for us $ wise.  I want to retire, but now, I don’t see how this is possible.  At least one more school year for sure.. Maybe retire May of 2027.  Wayne is purchasing things on an auction site and reselling, trying to get a little more money coming in.

Politics and Donald Trump have been horrible this year.   So proud of Wayne and me for protesting at the No Kings rally in June.  We can’t stand Donald Trump and all his administration is doing to our country….especially their degrading of immigrants, trying to blame everything on them.  It’s very disheartening.  We have got to stand up for our Democracy and the Constitution.  I’m really disappointed in Congress for just allowing Trump to do whatever he wants.  Feel like having Trump in office has distanced me from some of my relatives.  And made topics taboo. It’s like we are living in two different realities. I’m pretty disappointed that people voted Trump the first time, and now we are doing it again.

Our 100-year-old prophet-Pres. Nelson died… We have a new prophet with Pres. Oaks.  I look forward to how he will lead us during this tumultuous time in USA.  I wish the church would make more public statements about helping the immigrants, the poor and the needy…instead of staying silent.   Elder Holland died.  He was one of my favorites, even with the musket fire speech given to the BYU faculty.                      We have an Elder Holland chair.  The Hollands used to be in my parents' ward in Bountiful.  When he became an apostle, they moved into Salt Lake and had a big garage sale..and they gave a yellow club chair to my parents.  It was in their living room for years, then when my dad passed away, Wayne and I got the chair.  We had it in our blue and yellow bedroom in our Bountiful home, and now it is in my home office.  We go there when we seek inspiration or to read a book.

Trips this past year were just a few— In June, we went to Colorado and hiked national parks and went to Red Rocks Amphitheatre with the Lakes.  Our usual Bear Lake week— but this year was without the Calls and the Coles…so just my little family, and that was different.   Alaska cruise with Madsens and Mark Welches.  The trip was gorgeous, and seeing the glaciers was very cool.  Perfect weather.  Glad this was all paid for a year in advance…or we couldn’t have gone.

Performances:  Wayne and I were in the Lamb of God choir, I directed the SNAP production of Super Heroes, I performed in "Tuck Everlasting" at Centerpoint Theatre, and loved being in our Sidetracked band that sings every Tuesday at 2 pm somewhere.

Our family is doing okay.  Wayne’s health isn’t the best.  He has prostate issues, and possible cancer that he may need help with.  He hasn’t ridden his bike since September because of this.  He’s also pretty discouraged about his work because of tariffs.  He does spend a lot of time practicing his guitar and getting better at it.  Wayne has made at least 1000 loaves of sourdough bread this year! I fall in love with him over and over again every time I hear him "preach" to our addiction recovery people or share testimony in our Branch.  He loves the Gospel, and he's so passionate about it.  I just love him for that!

Add and Bre continue to work hard to market their Jambooks endeavor.  It’s such a great idea, I wish more people would jump in and use it to text in to create a memory book.   Now it would be great if they could make some money with it.  Addison continues working with Bre in their Pepperfox photography business and teaching at CPT academy.  Their little family is darling.  Bre has loved performing with Poppy in Frozen at HCT.   Alfie is a model 6th grader and George is getting “nicer” all the time.   

Landon and Alex have had a struggle year. Landon continues to do hair at his salon, and Alex works as a fraud consultant online at his home office.  Andrew is in the Utah Marching band and loving his time at the University and Sophia is a Jr. at Viewmont and enjoys choir and band and has some really awesome friends.  She is a doll!

Tru stopped his job with "P" the rich lady for whom he was a personal assistant, and had no job waiting for him.  He said it was a toxic environment, and she was blaming him for a lot of things.  He’s glad he’s done.  But he needs $ and a plan. He did odd jobs for a bit.  Wayne got his Prius up and working ($$). And we paid for two months of his rent. ($$). He’s since moved into a smaller, slightly cheaper apartment..and he’s working part-time for Grandma Welch along with Haley Welch.  They are our go-to caretakers, since we tried a Visiting Angels type of thing for Wanee.  Wanee wants to stay in her home and not go to a care center—  but she wouldn’t open the door for visiting angels and told Holly and Dale to hide…that’s how much she wasn’t happy with this arrangement.  She loves having her grandkids there to help.  Tru still has his dog Callum…and he’s trying to find other work.

Monson and Lexi are doing good.  Monson has been trying to find a new job this entire year.  He has many interviews..but either the position is less money than he is currently making, or requires a move or going to an office, and he enjoys working from home for Field Routes doing online payment stuff.  Lexi helps out at the Girls' Spanish immersion charter school.  All the girls are in school and enjoying it. They are also helping a family of 3 girls that they met at their school…it’s a desperate situation, and Monson and Lexi are saints.   The girls are all loving and daring.

Markus and Laila continue with work and school in California.   Laila got her associates finished up - Majoring in psychology.  Markus finishes his associates this spring.  Laila works as a pharmacy tech.  They moved to a new apartment this year…which is so much nicer, and within walking of a lot of fun things.  Markus is back with a field unit and is figuring things out with his military work and biding his time til he’s out of the Marines in the fall of 2027.


Friday, December 26, 2025

Christmas Day

Christmas day... was perfect.  Basically, anything Wayne and I get/buy in December, we count it as a Christmas gift.  So he/we got a lot of fun things, including a wireless charging station for Wayne's side of the bed that charges his phone, watch, and airpods all at once.  He also got some more Life is Good t-shirts.   I did a lot of thrifting!  It's a good deal for both of us!  

We struggled with what to gift our children this year.  Laila, Markus, and Truman need $, so we gave some of that... and the other three are in a different circumstance.   We gave Add, Bre, Monson, Lexi, Alex, and Landon another year of Grandkid game nights. We love this time with our grands, and the parents love the break.  And we are paying for 2 condos for our week in Bear Lake this summer.  Here is the note we sent everyone: 

We love our week at Bear Lake each year.  

We love spending time together, hanging out

all day on the beach and in the boat, shakes 

at LeBeaus,  food from Zips, night games, 

sleep, play, and swim time. We love that our 

Grandkids love it, and we are happy to 

continue to provide this to our amazing family.  

We have had a “Grandpa Lyle Trust” pay for 

Bear Lake for the past 10 years, and now it’s 

up to us to pay for two condos for our Bear 

Lake week. So we will now be giving you a 

Bear Lake week each year for Christmas.  

We wish we had ALL the money….

But alas, we are only RICH with Love.    

We would choose that any day.   Our life 

is rich because of you. 

Merry Christmas,

Mom and Dad. 

Our branch president makes wooden pens on a lathe -- he gifted two to us.  Wayne's is gorgeous made out of Coco wood with a magnetic clasp.  Mine is made out of Maple burl wood and features musical notes, a keyboard, guitar, and drum.  So beautiful.

We got up early and made it to Monson and Lexi's to see the little girls' excitement over their presents and to deliver the obligatory homemade rice krispie treats wrapped in foil.  

Monson with his autographed Tom Brady helmet!

Lexi is orchestrating things from her chair with Glitter bow on her lap, eating a rice krispie treat-- the taste of Christmas morning.

Elsie was thrilled to get an American Girl doll of Luna Lovegood from Harry Potter books.

Lady got a guitar and is excited to learn how to play it and Tayla got a 3-D printer!  

Off to Addison and Bre's home by 8:40 to have their kids come down the stairs and see that there weren't any presents, just a note that said, check out your new bedroom...the presents were all in that room.  Add and Bre told their kids a week ago that the downstairs toilet had flooded and there was sewage everywhere and the hazmat people had come and said they needed to stay out til after Christmas, and then they could come back and clean it up.  Actually, Add and Bre locked the door and worked their butts off painting and repairing and installing a new gigantic double bed with desks underneath, a new tv for dvd's and gaming and a mini fridge and shelves for all of their lego creations.  They were thrilled.  Poppy said, "This was Christmas Magic!" and she prayed this would happen.  It was so cute.  She kept saying over and over, "This is the best day ever!"
Alfie got an Apple watch..so he can text and call his people..and Fortnite legos, and a new room of course.  Poppy got a gigantic Barbie playhouse, a LEGO set and lots of fun things.  George got a remote control snake, a punching bag, Spiderman stuff and magnetic cars.  Then he looked around and said disappointedly, "Santa didn't bring me my Bluey."  Addison said, "You didn't ask Santa for that." George said," Oh yes, I did"...so they had to have a quick talk about all of the good things you did get that you didn't even ask for.   (This is so much like Jesus)


Truman joined with us at the kids homes.  Then Tru and I went to our home and watched the Jonas Brothers Christmas movie and laughed a lot.
The kids like to call Truman "Santa Sushi."
We visited Wanee, Holly and Dale.  Holly told Wayne he had to calm down before she showed him her BYU hat!  She said it's okay because I have a Utah shirt.  She's funny.
Wanee and I got matching jogger sets.
I also got a nice wool coat with a silk lining, and a new UMOZ license plate.  UMOZ is back!  Ultimate Meema of Zion!