Sunday, November 1, 2026

November- Gratitude month

Intentionally looking to gratitude each day is a such a good pracitice for our mental health.  I know this.  At the end of each day, I write down what happened that day, but it's not necessarily filled with what I am grateful for. 

Now it's November- I'm going to tackle this, intentionally, each day.  So here is Day one November 1st gratitude: 

I'm grateful for the Sabbath day.  I really do love a day of the week that's different from all the rest.  It's a day of rest from our normal tasks, but it's not a day of rest as in vegging out on the couch and napping all day... it's a rest from our daily labors and, instead, leaning into service, worship, and family time. 

Today we spent time with our Branch-- worshipping together and having lunch together.  I have such compassion for these sweet members who are striving to be more Christ-like each day... and who come up short, just like me... and keep on trying. 

Wayne had to leave early because we had a flood happening in our rental and he received a call.  He raced home and had to tear up carpet and do the wet dry vac and after 45 towels-- he has fans blowing.  What a mess-- but it was a day of service for him. 

Today we finally celebrated our October birthday people- Tayla, Bre and Poppy. They all had great birth days and we got to hear the re-caps, and then we went around and had family members say what they love and appreciate about these three angels. It's always enlightening to hear what is shared, and I hope the birthday girls received it and felt the love. 

Tayla is such a good, responsible firstborn.  She bears this burden seriously and happily.  Tayla is excelling at CPT Academy-- she is great on stage, and she just started playing club volleyball. She has great height for an 11-year-old and is towering over her classmates- so this sport may be perfect for her. We are excited to take Tayla to NYC for her birthday trip in February.

Bre is a lovely person and DIL. Bre LOVES October-- and all that goes with it, so it's awesome her birthday is here as well.  We are so grateful she is part of our fam.  She is patient with her kids and Addison and is so creative and warm.  Bre loves theatre and the gospel of Jesus Christ.

Poppy is 9! She is insightful and a deep thinker-- she is learning to express herself.  She is easily scattered and has to really concentrate on focusing in school and in relationships-- but she is doing better at this.  Poppy is very creative- loves to perform and craft.  

AHHH the sabbath.  It was so great having 17 of my 19 family members here today-- eating together, sharing, laughing, playing mahjong and hanging out.  Just what I want  the Sabbath to be. 






I realized I used to do this every year--

Saturday, October 31, 2026

Halloween 2026

Halloween was good. 

Lesley Leger, Me, Janet Webster, Bonnie Benedict

I ended up in 3 costumes this year.  I had a witch luncheon At Bonnie Benedict’s home on Wednesday– and I love to get in my witchy costume. We made carmel apples
and talked about our “haunted houses.”  
For example-

My 2nd  Halloween costume was for a Little Women rehearsal on Friday night and I dressed as a man in our old bare-chested man sweatshirt and glasses.  The cast got a big hoot out of it. 

 


On Halloween, Wayne and I dressed as Pirates for our pics at Add and Bre’s home, and to see our Grandkids before they head off trick-or-treating.   




Addison and Bre’s family did a Hocus Pocus family costume with the little girl, Brother and the mean kids… and even got George to be Binks the cat– with amazing face makeup by Addison.  ( They also got a new little puppy this day that they named Dolly Parton– from their other momma dog Rosie.  So they have 2 dogs now.  The kids were over the moon excited to have the puppy in every picture.)  

Monson’s family were part of Descendants 2- a Disney show that is a take on Disney villains– so they had the Mad Hatter, Pink, Red, and the Smee twins.  And their dog was the Queen of Hearts.   



Sophia showed up in a hilarious costume– Vector– the bad guy in the orange track suit from the Despicable Me movie.

Holly was so happy to be Glinda the good Witch for her SNAP party.

We had all of 3 doorbells ( 10 trick-or-treaters) on Sat. night.  It was very calm.  We compared this to our Belnap friends in St. George, who handed out over 600 toys and candy and Monson’s home which had 270 pieces given out.    Wayne put his Tesla in the driveway in Halloween mode and it played spooky music and thunders and howls at anyone who walks by.  Wayne can also talk from the car in a creepy voice.  So it was funny.  


Add and Bre set up an awesome scavenger hunt for Halloween night for Alfie and his 7th grade friends.  They had places  from the jr high, their church, Kaysville theater, the library etc.. with crazy stuff to do at each location and take a picture of as proof ..and at the end a big pot of candy.  The boys were running all over town! 

Wednesday, October 14, 2026

Tesla Road trip- Oct. 2026

   I’m writing this as we travel through South Dakota.




  We are camping overnight in our Tesla tent at campgrounds.  We hook the tent to the back of the Tesla, put all the seats down, and blow up a mattress that fits exactly in the space, and sleep in the Tesla at night–  we put the Tesla on camp mode, and on the screen, it shows an outdoor setting with chairs and a log fire…it’s pretty cool.  The camp mode keeps us warm or cool as needed.    The mattress isn’t bad, which is one step above it isn’t good… It’s doable, and I’m looking forward to sleeping in hotels for 3 nights once we hit Nashville.  


We’ve seen some beautiful prairie land.  South Dakota and North Dakota are miles and miles of prairie. So miles and miles of nothing- but atleast it’s green. They are some of the least populated states of our 50…and it shows.   We have voted the ugliest state award goes to Wyoming.  If it didn’t have Yellowstone, it would be bleak.    North Dakota has been windy!  

Wayne made it to his 50th state… North Dakota.  We went to Fargo, where he signed the registry and joined the last state club- North Dakota- and got a free T-shirt to commemorate.  It seems so many people do North Dakota as their 50th state that it’s a “thing.”  It’s been an adventure. This is why we started planning this trip in the first place.  How else do you get to North Dakota?


We’ve been driving east and waking up early, so we have seen some beautiful sunrises.  This is a 4600 miles round trip with 8-10 hours of driving every day.    We have the Starlink hooked up as we drive, so we have internet, and i can do my schoolwork, and we can watch movies and get General Conference in real time.  It’s been awesome having a car that drives itself.  And it’s fun to hear Wayne argue with Grok– the AI voice in the Tesla as we go.  

We are having a protein drink for most breakfasts, eating “healthy” snacks in the car and having one sit-down meal a day as we drive.  Once in Nashville, it will be different– the Grand ol Opry and Dollywood! I’m currently in my 3rd day of the same outfit… It’s comfortable, but kind of messy at this point. I figure– hey I’m camping!


Oct 5–We woke up in the dark at the Missouri State campsite.. ( we also set up in the dark)  we have no idea what this campsite even looked like.  We are getting faster at setting up and taking down; that’s for sure.  We drove to Nashville, TN.. and made it there by 5:00 pm.  Finally SHOWERS and a good bed.  We unloaded and were able to meet up with one of our old YSA’s Emma Hicks at Martin’s BBQ for dinner.  She got her MBA at Vanderbilt University and has stayed here for work.   We caught up and then she took us down to Broadway where all the nightlife and Honkytonks are.  There are a lot of bright lights, a ton of people and live music coming from every bar front.  We settled in at Rovert’s Western World– which features the “old’ country music.  Wayne and I danced and then settled in for drinks and listening.  This place serves a fried baloney sandwich on cheap white bread with chips and a rootbeer for 6 bucks.  It’s called the recession special.  This is a fun honkytonk!  I also danced with some old dude who moved me around the dance floor like a pro.  It was fun.  More wandering down Broadway. We ducked into candy shops and boot stores and more honkytonks.  We landed at Chiefs– it’s 4 stories of different bars and artists playing live music.  We got to the roof and enjoyed the view!  It really is a fun city and so good to share it with Emma. 



Next morning, we got the tour the city trolley  hop on hop off pass and saw all the historical sites.  We ate an amazing 100-layer donut at 5 Daughters Bakery.  It’s a cronut with cream inside and outside.  It was heavenly!   We wandered Broadway for a bit in the daylight– not many people in the honkytonks–but still live music happening.  It’s kind of sad with no audience, but you can see the musicians just want to play.  We got a giant chocolate turtle to eat and ice cream as we wandered.  We saw the State Capitol and the Ryman Theatre ( where the first Grand Ole Opry was located) and the new Dolly Museum soft opening–   and met some nice people along the way.  We ate at Arnold’s restaurant for lunch– which is a Meat and 3 place– so you pick out your meat in a cafeteria style line, and get 3 sides– we got roast beef, mashed potatoes, roasted brussel sprouts and Corn pudding– it was all over the top delicious. We wandered some more–the got back to the hotel for a nap.  We headed back out for dinner at Hattie B’s Hot Chicken.  It was so good.  We love eating our way through a new place. 



We made it to the Grand Ole Opry and Opry Mills, which is a big outlet space.  We found some great shoes- 2 pair for me and 2 pair for Wayne.  Then settled into the Grand Ole Opry.  It really is so cool!  I had to pinch myself.  We got there on a good night where Mitchell Tenpenny was having a raise-the-money-for-cancer night, so there were a lot of artists playing.. We had Jackie Lee, Jo Dee Messina, Lee Brice, Ernest, Devin Dawson and Chris Young all performing.  The caliber of talent in voice, songwriting and instrument playing is truly amazing.  


We once again got up before the sunrise and headed out to Dollywood– we had a 3 ½ hour drive from Nashville and a time change that added an hour, and got to Dollywood at 10:30– it was a gorgeous weather day.  We have had gorgeous weather for this whole trip ( minus the wind in North Dakota for a bit). Dollywood is an experience.  First off we walked through a Dolly biopic– that went through her whole life with pics, movie clips, memorabilia and sparkle.   There is a lot of “I will always love you” sadness because Dolly died– but it is a clean, well-run, hometown-style amusement park.  It was all decorated for Halloween too– which was cool.   They had real pumpkins lining so many walkways–1,000s of pumpkins, plus all the carved pumpkins and giant pumpkin trees and spooky decor, etc..  Dollywood has a lot of land– and features eleven rollercoasters.  We got the time saver pass so we wouldn’t waste our time standing in line and did all of the coasters we could–  Wayne was being such a good sport.. We did a lot of circles and corkscrews, some with dangling feet, some that went straight up and straight down… it was a lot.  I loved them all.  They had a giant free-fall tower as well.- 230 feet in the air ( 20 stories).  When you are at the top, the view is spectacular! I love that “wee hill” feeling.  The rides were super! 




 The shows were amazing.  We saw two shows- Rhonda Vincent and the Rage– a bluegrass singer and band.  She has won 8 grammy’s for female vocalist of the year for bluegrass and she was excellent..once again the guitar, banjo, and mandolin playing was off the charts!  We also saw a dad and son duo called “the Zinks”–  they sang a lot of covers that we recognized.  Very down-home, and the guitar picking was excellent.   

The best thing at the park to eat is the cinnamon bread– it’s actually a whole loaf of hot cinnamon and sugar-coated pieces of dough baked together- ( like monkey bread) and it was amazing!  They sell 3,000 loaves a day on average! 

Day 7– up and early again— so we would get out and do 10 hours of driving.  We have loved using the self-driving in the Tesla.   It makes it so we are relaxed, watching movies, and Wayne isn’t exhausted.  He’s even fallen asleep a couple of times behind his dark sunglasses…we are totally safe.      We arrived at Graham Cave State Park in Missouri before it was dark– and the campground is beautiful.  We set up our Tesla tent quickly and hung out til dark- then slept, and you guessed it, up early again for Day 8 and more driving….to Kansas this time, then pushing for the long haul home… we decided not to use the reserved KOA site but push on 3 more hours to Denver airport and stay in a hotel!   Day 9…more Wyoming driving...arrived Saturday night back in Layton.  We have seen 7 sunrises over the past 9 days.  They were all gorgeous!   We knew we were almost home when we stopped at Little America in Wyoming and got our $1.00 ice cream cones!  We did it!



Thursday, October 8, 2026

Ofrenda


 I put an Ofrenda together for Halloween.  An ofrenda (Spanish: "offering") is the offering placed in a home altar during the annual and traditional Mexican Día de los Muertos celebration. An ofrenda, which may be quite large and elaborate, is usually created by the family members of the person who has died and is intended to welcome the deceased to the altar setting.

 I have my grandparents, Wayne's grandparents, my parents, Wayne's dad and Marcie and Preston on it.  It's important to honor the dead.  

Tuesday, October 6, 2026

Little Women at CPT

I get to play Aunt March/Mrs. Kirk in "Little Women", and I'm thrilled to be in a show again!  I love meeting new people, wearing costumes, stepping into a character who's not like me, being on stage, delving into a song, and creating a character backstory.   So fun.

It's a good group.  Our Jo's are so good, and everyone else is stepping up too. 

Two casts combined.  My double is Rose-- she's front row in the blue.  I'm the oldest one there, and that's okay.



Tuesday, September 22, 2026

Straight and Tall

 I can still hear my dad's voice whisper to my sister Marcie and me as we were walking down a hallway, or heading into school, or even just pushing a cart at the grocery store...."Straight and Tall, Straight and Tall." 


Sometimes he would use code, "S and T"  and smile and wink at us.  We knew what he was talking about. As a teenager, it often bugged me, and I was reluctant to straighten up, but it was a good reminder.

Straight and Tall  was about 3 rules for living

1. Stand up straight, but not just your posture.  This applies to your opinions and presence. Stop shrinking yourself to make other people feel comfortable. 

2.   Walk tall.  Go into rooms as if you belong there because you do. Chin up.Shoulders back. Energy first. 

3. Be seen. Take up space. Wear the color. Take the photo. Speak up. Laugh loud. You are the main character of your life - not the blurry background extra.         

My dad's motto:  Straight and Tall. Not perfection. Not pretending. Just living like you matter, because you do.   I love my dad for instilling this in my teenage brain. 

September is all about my dad. He's been gone for 11 years.  Dad was born in September and died in September.  It was his favorite month, and now it's one of mine. 


Friday, September 18, 2026

I Retire in 250 days

 I retire in 250 days... and I'm thinking a lot about that.

I have a great job and feel so blessed to have been with Utahonline for over 20 years, and I'm grateful for the time I spent teaching in the classroom at Bountiful High for many years...and I can't wait to be done with it all. So I'm counting down. 

I want to be done with being tied to my house and computer 5 days a week...   It can get lonely and feels isolated working from home with no one else here.  It's a blessing and a curse. 

I want to be done teaching online.  Online is its own challenge.

I want to be done with spreadsheets and secretarial-type work.

I want to be done with "nagging" schools to get their stuff in and tracking programs and chromebooks.

I will miss interacting with people- online and off.   I especially enjoyed UOS training time when we are all together talking, planning and laughing. I will miss money coming in. I will miss having a plan every day and knowing what's expected of me. 

My vision for my future-- or at the end of my first year of retirement..what do I want to say of my year:  We traveled more, and we played with our family and friends and spent quality time together. We helped our kids financially (if needed.) We didn't have any health issues. I learned something new creatively, like taking a class, meeting new people, or performing on stage. I was able to serve in my "ministries" of bringing music to old people with the band, helping people with special needs with a friend-to-friend group and serving in ARP 12-step and with our Branch as missionaries.   I can give more time and energy to all of this.

So... I'm preparing now to get ready, physically, mentally, socially, and financially, so when May 27, 2027 comes, my first day of retirement, I'm ready! I'm having Chatgpt give me daily challenges to address these areas..and it will be interesting to see what the challenges are. Then I just have to follow through.