Sunday, September 13, 2026

Wayne's Stake Conference talk

 For the past 14 months, my wife, Melinda, and I have been given a front-row seat to something sacred: we have watched Jesus Christ rebuild lives. We serve in a transition branch composed largely of men who have been convicted of felonies and served time in jail or prison. 

Through this calling, we have come to love people who have made serious mistakes and suffered serious consequences. But we have also witnessed something remarkable: no mistake, addiction, prison sentence, or painful past places a person beyond the Savior’s reach.

The experiences of 3 friends from our branch can teach us the different ways the Savior can restore lives. The first is my friend Kevin. 

For more than 50 years, Kevin struggled with addictions to alcohol and tobacco. He eventually lost hope and made choices that resulted in him serving ten years in prison. He described himself using Lehi’s words as being bound by “awful chains” and carried into a “gulf of misery and woe.”

While in prison, Kevin made the decision to turn to God. He said that through Church volunteers, weekly worship services, scripture study, and the Healing through the Savior addiction recovery program, he came to know Jesus Christ. He discovered that forgiveness and redemption were still available—even to him.

Through the Savior’s grace, Kevin became free from the addictions that had held him captive for so many years. He has been sober now for 13months. Even more miraculously, he witnessed the Savior help heal the family members he had hurt and enable them to forgive him. Kevin’s testimony is that Christ did not merely forgive his past. The Savior freed him from captivity, healed relationships, restored hope, and gave him a new life.

Step 2 in the Healing through the Savior program is, “come to believe the power of God can restore us to complete spiritual health.” I love the word restore. It means to repair, reclaim, renew, and return something to usefulness and beauty. The central message of step 2 is hope. My friend Brad in the branch says Hope stands for "Heaven on planet earth" and that he found it in the Ogden Transition Branch. 

For someone trapped in addiction, burdened by sin, or carrying shame, hope begins with the belief that change and forgiveness are possible—and that the past does not have to define the future, Kevin’s experience is a modern witness of the mission Jesus Christ announced at the beginning of His earthly ministry when He said:

 He hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted [and] to preach deliverance to the captives” (Luke 4:18). Jesus came to forgive sinners, liberate captives, heal wounded hearts, strengthen the weak, and restore what had been lost.

That restoring power comes through His infinite Atonement. Alma taught that Christ would take upon Himself our “pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind,” together with our sicknesses and infirmities, so that He would know “how to succor his people.  (Alma 7:11–12).

President Boyd K. Packer taught, “Restoring what you cannot restore, healing the wound you cannot heal … is the very purpose of the Atonement of Christ.”

Repentance does not necessarily remove every earthly consequence. Kevin still had to face the consequences of his choices.  The Savior can also restore us by giving purpose to our suffering and allowing us to bless others.

My friend John, another member of our branch, entered prison at age 63 believing he might never come out alive. Because of the serious mistakes he had made, he also thought there was no way God could still love him. When first incarcerated, several inmates warned John to stay away from a man named Frank, a feared cartel enforcer. But one day Frank approached him. John braced himself for a confrontation.  Frank said, “I have been watching you. You pray before every meal. Could you teach me how to pray?”

John and Frank began meeting each evening to read scriptures and pray together. Frank later confided that he had planned to take his own life, but their scripture study had opened a window of hope he had never imagined. After his release, Frank and his wife left their former lives behind and were eventually baptized.

In John’s story, the Savior was restoring two lives. As John helped Frank discover God, John began to rediscover his own worth as a son of God. Serving Frank helped lift John from the depression and shame that had convinced him he had lost the Savior’s love.

That is what Jesus Christ does. He meets us in our prisons—whether those prisons have walls or are made of sin, addiction, despair, or shame. Through His Atonement, He restores hope, identity, purpose, and the possibility of a different future.

Not every broken heart, however, is the result of sin. Some hearts are broken by grief, betrayal, physical or emotional illness, or prayers that appear to remain unanswered.

The Book of Mormon gives us a beautiful picture of the Savior’s desire to heal every kind of affliction. When the resurrected Christ appeared to the people at Bountiful, He said: “Have ye any that are sick among you? Bring them hither. Have ye any that are lame, or blind, or halt, or maimed, or leprous, or that are withered, or that are deaf, or that are afflicted in any manner? Bring them hither and I will heal them… We later read, “And he did heal them every one” (3 Nephi 17:7, 9).

If the Savior were standing among us today, perhaps we would hear His invitation in language such as this: Have ye any who are discouraged? Have ye any who are worried about their children or grandchildren? Have ye any who are grieving, lonely, anxious, or depressed? Have ye any whose marriages are strained, whose prayers seem unanswered, or who have questions about their testimonies?Bring them hither.

Or perhaps His invitation would be even more personal: Are you discouraged? Are you afraid? Are you burdened by guilt? Do you have questions? Then come unto Me, and I will heal you.

His healing may come immediately, as it did for the people at Bountiful, or it may come gradually. 

Another member of our branch, my friend Luke, has helped me understand that restoration does not always feel dramatic. Luke committed serious sins. His choices nearly ended his marriage. His Church membership was withdrawn, and he was incarcerated for several years. Luke once expected the Atonement to produce a momentous spiritual experience. When he read Alma’s question, ‘Have you experienced this mighty change in your hearts?’ he wondered why he had not felt some overwhelming transformation (Alma 5:14).

But a mighty change does not always arrive in a single mighty moment.

From the first day of Luke’s confession, small evidences of the Savior’s grace began to appear: a message arriving when he desperately needed it, a telephone call timed almost impossibly to answer a need, and people placed in his path at the right moment. Luke was re-baptized last Sunday.  Luke still says he has not received the dramatic spiritual manifestation he once thought he was supposed to have. But he can see what the Savior has done in his life.

Sometimes we do not recognize the Savior’s hand because we are waiting for thunder while He is sending daily bread.

The parable of the good Samaritan teaches us something more about this healing. We all know the story: a wounded man was passed by several individuals, but a Samaritan stopped to help. When we are wounded, that Samaritan is Jesus Christ. He comes to where we are, has compassion on us, binds our wounds, carries us, and pays the price for our healing. When others are wounded, the Savior gives us the opportunity to follow His example—to become a good Samaritan ourselves. We stop, show compassion, help bind their wounds, and point them to the Savior, who is the true Healer.

That is something Melinda and I have learned in our service in the transition branch: we are not the healers. Jesus Christ is. Our privilege is to help bring people to Him—and then witness what His grace can do. No life is beyond the reach of Jesus Christ.

We may see ruins; He sees something worth rebuilding.

We may see failure; He sees a disciple who can still become holy.

We may see weakness; He sees an opportunity for His grace to become manifest.

Brothers and sisters, let’s take Step 2. Come to believe that the power of God can restore us. Turn toward Jesus Christ.  Repent of what needs to be changed. Seek priesthood and professional help when needed.  And then allow the Savior time to perform His work in us.

His invitation is both tender and direct: “Will ye not now return unto me, and repent of your sins, and be converted, that I may heal you?” ... Behold, mine arm of mercy is extended towards you” (3 Nephi 9:13–14).

I testify that His arm of mercy is extended toward each of us. Jesus Christ lives. Because He rose from the tomb, death will not have the final word. Because He carried our sins, repentance is real. Because He experienced our pains, we never suffer alone. And because of His grace, broken lives can be forgiven, healed, restored, and ultimately made whole, leading us into a future filled with hope. Heaven on planet earth. 

Wednesday, September 9, 2026

Uintahs with the Branch

 Saturday we took some men up to Mirror Lake in the Uintahs for a day of hiking, canoeing and nature that our District put on for the 3 transition branches. We spent the day with Scott Wilson, Brad Phillips and Kim Hildreth.  Wayne climbed to the top of Bald Mountain with 2 bald guys ( Brad and Scott) and a very determined special-needs man Kim.  Kim is slow and wobbly but he doesn’t give up.  We had lunch and a gorgeous lake to sit by. 

 






Friday, September 4, 2026

Sidetracked in Jackson Hole

 Our band went up to Jackson Hole to play on the square and at a rest home.  It was a quick 2 days, but we had a ton of fun...and looked cute in our western wear.

We played twice in the square on Tuesday.  We all got there around 3:00 and sang at 4 and 5. We added some western songs:   Ghost Riders in the Sky, Country Roads, Red River Valley, Happy Trails and Grandma's Feather bed.     The weather was perfect- overcast and cool.  We had many people stop and listen or pass by and listen. We find joy in singing the oldies.



Sidetracked band Jackson Hole style: Bob and Kimi Farley, Wayne and Melinda Welch, Nick Cash, Emma Roberts, Garth Oborn, Angie Smith

Garth and Ann Oborn are in charge of this group and do a great job with booking gigs and keeping equipment fixed...and they pay each of us a little gas money as well.



We sang at Sage Assisted Living on Wednesday morning, before heading home.  This is a gorgeous care center with a big view of the Tetons in the background as we sang.   We didn't have Maren or Rob with us-- but Emma Roberts filled in for a bit.    By the end of the two days our feet were killing us because we are NOT used to wearing cowboy boots!  



Monday, August 31, 2026

Dolly Parton and a firestorm

 I posted this on insta and it blew up!   So many fans thought I was hating on Dolly-- which I'm not.  I love Dolly.  I'm hating on our endless youth anti-aging culture that got us to this point.  We are so brainwashed we don't even know we have bought into it.  The Beauty industry/ plastic surgeons/ media all thrive on our insecurities about our looks.  They make billions of dollars a year convincing us NOT to age naturally.  They want us to fight it every step of the way...and many buy into this.  But I am not!  

There are so many more interesting things about me and you than how we look.  

Like... How you feel.  Your passions. Your dreams. Talents. How much you care about others.  The way you treat people.  What you think about, plan, and explore.  What excites you.  

And what I loved most about Dolly was her generosity, big heart, inclusion, talent, and humor.  Her looks kind of made me sad..because they became so Barbie-like.  I wanted to see the "real" Dolly.

My feelings about Dolly Parton are complicated.   

I put  Coat of  Many Colors on repeat yesterday morning after hearing Dolly passed, sitting with a complicated ache in my chest. 

I loved Dolly Parton with my whole heart. Her songwriting, her humor, her generosity, and the way she poured love into people was pure magic. 

Watching her over the decades brought a quiet sadness too. She spent half a century turning into an exaggerated, plastic version of herself to stay visible in the spotlight.  She even joked about it. The tiny waist, the endless procedures, and the fear of letting a single natural line show on camera. 

An eighty-year-old woman does not look like smooth porcelain without a team of surgeons. 

When a cultural powerhouse feels pressured to erase every trace of time, think about the message that hands down to the next generation. It teaches girls in their twenties that getting older is a personal failure. It tells them their future faces are something to dread, carve up, and hide before anyone notices they lived. 

If an icon as brilliant and beloved as Dolly never felt safe letting eighty look like eighty, we will never get to see what real, dignified aging even looks like.

I am sitting here in my bright thrifted cardigan with all my sun spots and laugh lines in full view, wondering if you felt that same ache watching her over the years?

Saturday, August 29, 2026

Monday, August 24, 2026

School has started!

 I had my last first day of school! I can't believe I'm almost at retirement!

Andre's first day as a Sophomore at the University of Utah.  He changed his major to film, and he's still with the marching band playing trumpet!

Sophia's first day as a Senior at Viewmont High School.  She doesn't believe she is a Senior and neither do I.  She will continue with her choir, band and musical theatre pursuits.  She has a bunch of good friends, and a car to drive so she is doing great.
Alfie's first day of Jr. High...this was taken after school and he loved his first day.
Poppy's first day in 3rd grade.  She got her cast removed just in time and now has a brace on for 6 weeks.  She is a good reader and they are figuring out ADHD meds for her to help her focus better and not zone out.
George's first day of Kindergarten at a Charter school... this way he can do Kindergarten twice! 
Elsie is in First grade and feeling it.  She has a ton of confidence and wants to really learn to read this year.
Lady is going into 3rd grade and hurt her wrist this summer.  She is so smart and has a lot of anxiety.
Tayla first day of 5th grade ( she also hurt her wrist).  She is almost as tall as me, and definitely the tallest in her grade.  

Lexi has her first day as well as a Teacher's aide at the girls' North Layton Prep Academy charter school.


First day of school for Monson’s girls and Lexi went well – they are all excited and looked darling in their uniforms and new backpacks.  

Sophia’s first day as a Senior at Viewmont High was full of emotions– she was happy and sad to be a Senior– she misses people from last year and can’t believe she is this old.  I told her to feel all the feelings..and do your best to enjoy.

Addison’s house was a bit crazy on their first day…. They are type B parents and don’t read all the emails and calendars ( so much like me), so they didn’t know George’s school started days before the Davis district– and he missed his first couple of days… oh well.  And they need a uniform for him!  Which they didn’t buy with the normal school clothes.  They have since fixed all of this.  George came home from his first day and said, “School was good, nobody hit me.”   He has a low bar.

Alfie was all tears heading back to school, “Why does the world make us go to school?”  “I hate learning.”  Which is funny becaue Alfie has always been a good student with a lot of friends.  They got Alfie and Poppy and George to school late after Addison lost it, yelling at them all to “eat  breakfast, grab your stuff, get in the car!”  (We all take our turns being crazy parents. )  Alfie went in mad because he was late – but he came home at the end of the day all smiles.  It went GREAT!  He loved his first day at Jr. High.  Success. Poppy loved her school too– and she got her cast off and only has a wrist brace now– so that’s good.  

Andrew is loving his marching band camp– he loves playing trumpet and has changed his major to film.  

Tuesday, August 18, 2026

Closing of Childhood Church

We went to the open house for the closing of the 4th, 20th, 36th ward church building in Bountiful on 1400 South. (Too many stairs and too hard to get it up to code.  They will be collapsing some wards and realigning boundaries in the South Stake.)  This is the church we had mine and Wayne’s and Addison and Bre’s wedding luncheons.      
We took Wanee and Holly…and what I thought would be like a 20-minute outing turned into 2 hours.   We saw so many people there that we hadn’t seen for a long time....David Irvine, Carolyn and Mark Zaugg, Dave and Robin Beck, Gary Wall.   So, a lot of visiting, plus they had history books of the different wards from the 1950’s on up.   I went through the 4th ward ‘60’s book and found so many pictures of my mom when she was RS president of that ward, and her as a witch entertaining the primary kids for their Halloween Party, and Dad serving in the 4th ward bishopric, and one pic of our whole family with Angela as a 1 year old.  Mom had amazing hair of course.  It even had pics of  “The Singing Mothers” that mom and Grandma were part of– and a picture of my grandma’s quartet- The Classics-  when they entertained at a ward thing.  It was crazy.  I have pics of me as a 6 year old in matching coats with Marcie that I have never seen before.  It was so great to go through these books.  I’m very grateful for ward historians who took their jobs seriously.   


I got a pic in front of the big Jesus - fishers of Men paining in the front of the chapel.  They handed out copies of that pic to everyone with a little write up on the back of how Dean Belnap painted it.   (Eric Belnap’s dad)  Then we had lunch under the trees and more visitiing.  It was awesome!  The building is for sale for 1.9 million if anyone wants to buy it. 


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The Singing Mothers

1969 Grandma Butters quartet


1969-- Angela is the baby in the blanket