Saturday, February 7, 2026

Billionaires are an abomination

 The more I read and learn about the making of Billionaires-- the more I am disgusted and saddened by them.

We tend to refer to millionaires and billionaires in one sentence, as if they are the same.  The fact is that a millionaire is closer economically to a minimum wage worker than to a billionaire.  If I make $100,000 a year, just ten times that makes me a millionaire.   If I make a million dollars a year, a thousand times that makes me a billionaire.

This is what a billion is:  If you earned $1 every second, you would reach $1 million after 11 and a half days.  To get to a billion dollars, you would need 31.7 years.  If you earned $100,000 a year, you would earn a million after 10 years of work.  At the same rate, you would need to work 10,000 years to earn a billion.   A million is a 1,000 thousands.  A billion is a 1,000 millions.  If you spent $1,000 a day, it would take you just 2.7 years to spend a million dollars.  If you spent the same amount a day, it would take you 2,740 years to spend $1 billion.

That's what a billion is.  That's what billionaires have, more money than they could every ethically make, more money than they quite literally could ever spend in a thousand lifetimes.  

Across the world, 8 billionaires own the same wealth as 3.6 billion people, half the entire population of the planet.  8 people.  In America, the top 1% of Americans hold more wealth than the bottom 90%.  

Trump has an unprecedented 13 billionaires in his administration.  Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos and Mark Zuckerberg own more wealth than the bottom half of America.  More wealth than over 165 million of us.

In America, we are taught some sort of  "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" nonsense. Men are self-made. In America, we have a deeply curated and intentional story that billionaires are the natural result of extraordinary effort, inventive brilliance and brave risk-taking.  This is B.S.

Elon Musk gets government subsidies, grants, taxbreaks and contracts to the tune of $9.2 billion. Jeff Bezos has received more than $15 billion in government subsidies and contracts.

Take the Waltons, who own Walmart.  Walmart pays its more than 1.6 million American workers below a living wage, which means that roughly one in four Walmart employees relies on public assistance, costing the American taxpayers $6 billion a year.  While we pick up the tab, the billionaire Walton family collects the profits generated by their poverty wages, meaning that our tax money is directly subsidizing the Walton family fortune, which is now at $430 billion.  Taxpayers are effectively writing a check to the Walton family for roughly $3 billion every year, since they own half of Walmart, by subsidizing low wages through public benefits. 

Billionaires are not bootstrappers who pulled themselves up.  They are, in fact, an invention of specific policies that created them, specific laws that didn't exist until the 1980's that allow hoarded wealth to be limitless, while denying workers the fruits of their productivity.

A line from Ragimes goes:  "How can the masses permit themselves to be exploited by the few?  The answer is being persuaded to identify with them. " We have been persuaded that billionaires are not unethical hoarders, but aspirational heroes, and that we too could be that wealthy if only we were clever enough and hardworking enough with a little luck.

The problem with idolizing billionaires is that we aspire to wealth we will never come close to touching.

In order to reach the low end of Bezos' wealth, the average worker would need to work for 4 million years. Elon Musk makes more in a single day than a teacher will earn in thousands of lifetimes.

The fortunes of the five richest men in the world more than doubled between 2020 and 2024, while billions of workers who make their success possible declined in wages and living standards.  Here's what we need to understand.  It's not that there isn't enough money and productivity.  Productivity per worker has nearly doubled since the 1970's. It's just that anyone who isn't at the top is denied access to the fruits of their own productivity. In the 1970's, median wages tracked productivity fairly closely, but from 1980 to today,  median wages have barely budged, even though productivity rose by as much as 80%.  this means that workers create far more value than they are compensated for.  That compensation is just captured by owners and executives.  In 1970, a US worker produced $28 an hour of output and earned 419 an hour.  IN 2024, a worker produces $50 an hour and earns $25.  Since 2019, CEO compensation has increased 50% while worker pay rose by less than 1%.

Right now, over 60% of our fellow Americans live paycheck to paycheck, yet we have billionaires living amongst us.

It's gross. It's wrong. Billionaires are an abomination...and we must change our economic rules and values in our country to benefit more people. When is enough money enough?  Why do greed and power get away with so much and break so many laws?  I'm sick of it. 

(I read much of this article from the We Can Do Hard Things podcast..and wanted to have it on my blog, since this is exactly how I feel and what I can't believe we have fallen for in this country.)



Sunday, February 1, 2026

Dress for JOY

 I've challenged myself to dress for JOY every day this year.  Dressing for JOY entails color, creativity, confidence and memory.  I have mom's old jewelry chest filled with fun memories, that when I wear the neckalce or earrings etc... it always sparks joy.  

Dressing for joy means staying away from trends and the boring beige of the world and moving to dopamine dressing.   It means wearing the sweaters that I've crocheted.

Dressing for joy also means that when I'm out and about, I get a lot of smiles, double takes, and sometimes compliments.  But I don't need anyone to approve of what I wear-- only me.  

To hold myself accountable to this, I am posting on Instagram every day my outfit choice.  It's hard to want to do this every day, but I need something to keep my going and this has worked so far.  @whatluckywears

These are my January looks:










Monday, January 26, 2026

This week...

Holly took Wayne out for his birthday to Joy Luck.  She included me, Dale, and Wanee.  Holly loves ham fried rice and Orange Chicken, so she was in heaven.  Holly is fun to go out with because she is kind of silly and really positive about everything.  She enjoys the waiter, and the food, and ordering the food and getting a Sprite.  It's childlike joy and it's contagious.   


I had my Girlfriend bgroup Therapy for January.  We gathered at Kathleen's home for a pot luck Salad-- evryone brought the perfect ingredients-- it really was delicious-- and a book exchange.  The task was to bring one of the books you have read to tell about and give away.  We had many wonderful books shared and we all went away with a new book to read.  When I made this group I didn't want another book group-- but occasionally it would be about books.  
front row:  Diane Lake, Bonnie Benedict, Janet Webster, Lesley Leger.  back row: Jan Hedberg, Kathleen Blake, Erin Perkins, Jill Allsop, Myken Shingleton, Jana Uryan, and me.
We went with the Lakes to see Three Dog Night!  It was a riot!  The average age there was probably 65.  It started at 7 cuz we all want to be home in bed by 10.   We love their old tunes… so many familiar ones that have played in the soundtrack of our lives.  “One is the loneliest number, “  “Black and White,” “ Shambala”, “Just an Old fashioned Love song,” " Easy to be Hard, " and  “Jeremiah was a bullfrog.. Joy to the World.”    

I remember so clearly my family singing the “Jeremiah was a bullfrog” song at a Stake Talent show down at the Regional Center (the Valley Music Hall ) when I was about 10.  Mom got us girls all matching dresses and Dad and Adam had matching vests and we had tambourines.  Angela was 3, Liz 5, Adam 7 and Marcie 11…and we were AMAZING.   Mom changed some of the words to be more fitting..and I remember Dad and Adam singing the verse of “You know I love the Ladies…”  Good times.

Wednesday, January 21, 2026

Big Birthday party

We celebrated all of our December and January birthdays.  There are 8 of them from Dec. 2 to Jan 22.  This is the first time in two years we have had the entire family together!   We had roast beef and mashed potatoes for dinner - everyones favoirite -- then went around and said good things about each of our birthday people.  Elsi, Andrew, Monson, Wayne, Alfie, Lady, Tru and Laila.  It's good for the birthday person to hear and it's good for all of us to be reminded on how important it is to speak well of each other and notice each other's gifts and talents.

Addison made the cake...we blew out candles and played a fun music game called Hitster... you run a QR code and songs play, then if you know the artist and the title, that's bonus points, but the real goal is to figure out the time period when the song came out.  You build a timeline with the songs you use. 

Wayne broke out his soft ice cream machine...in the cold of winter.  Everyone loved it!  All the ice cream you can eat...but you have to eat it in the garage or in the kitchen, because I don't want a MESS.  



The grands all sang Wayne the Beatles song--" When I'm 64!" IT was really cute then a big group hug!



 

Friday, January 9, 2026

GKGN

Grandkid game night was great.  We had all 8 nuggets here.  I’ve started calling my grandkids nuggets since that’s all they want to eat when they come to my house.  So nuggets it is.

We kind of have a routine now that we are 2 years into this. We gather, color, and chat, have nuggets and fried or tator tots, do a “lesson”  this month we had all the kids write something they love, a wish or a goal on a paper to make a grand paper chain to decorate the sliding door and as a reminder for the next month. 




We head outside for running around, - red light green light– we even go outside if it’s really cold..and Wayne lights the fire pit and we have toasted marshmallows and s'mores.  Then back inside for charades. Our charade highlights were Lady being baby Jesus, and George being an eyeball– we didn’t guess either of these..... or some type of acting/ hiding game, then dessert– we had ice cream, then games.  We played trash and Sky jo then the parents come to get the nuggets.  It’s always a treat. 

Thursday, January 1, 2026

New Years Day 2026

 Wow, and we are at a New Year again.....


Many of us joined Addison and Bre's family for their annual seafood lunch on New Years day.  

I love a new year.  It feels like fresh starts or at least a time to contemplate what the coming year could bring.  
2026:New year, New me…

My word for the year is CREATIVITY


Dress more creatively— wear all my good clothes and jewelry.  Dopamine dressing. 


Only Thrift — DI, Savers, Good Will, TJ Maxx, Ross, NPS, other stores only clearance or sale


Don’t do two things at the same time —focus, be more present.


Silent morning walk— me and my thoughts, so I can have more inspiration and creativity. 


Listen to Book of Mormon and Old Testament Devotional each morning


Read 26+  books


Tell everyone about the Telepathy podcast


Dance every day!  30 seconds.


Tesla road trip to ….  Nashville, TN. - get Wayne to North Dakota-- the only state he hasn't been to.


Bear Lake June 22-29 with the Calls and the Coles


Disneyland with family the end of May


Continue Missionary ARP service in Water Tower Branch


Grandkid game night -- do mini coaching sessions with the grands.  Work on confidence and empathy.


Girlfriend group therapy once a month


Work with Friend 2 friend every Friday


Sidetracked band-- still enjoy it and see it continuing throughout this next year.



Monson's family also picked inspirational words for the coming year.
Monson's is Jesus-- he just turned 33 so it's his Jesus year to love more, be more compassionate and no harsh words.
Lexi: Simplify
Tayla: Resilliant
Lady: Calm
Elsie: Love

MY WISH:  Be too much.  Be extra.  Live Large.  Smile big.  Laugh hard.  Celebrate yourself.  Open your heart.  Express your emotions.  Use your words.  Giggle.  Dance.  Soak in the sun.  Splash in the waves.  Breathe deep, and love your life.  You only get one.

Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Last pic of the year

 This is a compilation of the last picture of me from the last twelve years.